I have to admit, when The Big Bang Theory sitcom came to CBS, I didn’t watch it because I don’t believe in the BBT and I figured it would be a show slamming God all the time. I believe God created the world and man and all that jazz.
But my husband loves TV like I love books and so one night when we’d run out of a things to watch, we decided to Netflix it. And it may now possibly be one of my favorite sitcoms (turns out it doesn’t slam God) right beside Rules of Engagement and Modern Family. Go ahead and judge. I’m sure someone would be happy to remove the large beam from your eye after you’ve finished reading this post with the other one.
Here’s why The Big Bang Theory works.
1. The writers do their homework.
Penny in the middle, the average bear of the show
BBT is about a group of nerds/geniuses who work together and hang out. Because their brilliant, they talk sometimes, ok often, so far above the average person’s head it’s ridiculous.
BUT…
Smart writers add average people who expect them to dumb it down. Which they do. And then I can understand and the comedy is so brilliant that it works. It flows seamlessly without me realizing that they are actually letting the audience in on what the terms mean.
2. The characters are all geniuses, but they have distinct personalities and quirks.
Smart writers have given each character a unique personality to go with their brilliant minds. And they never forget and have them act out of character.
Jim Parsons “Sheldon Cooper”
totally deserved this award!
My favorite character, probably, is Sheldon. He’s extremely OCD, so when he knocks on a door, he has to do it three times. Yet has an episode went by that he didn’t do this. I have to remember when I give my character a particular quirk, I need to make sure it’s consistent throughout the story.
He has house rules and they are always coming up. He needs to sit in a particular place on the couch. He has a particular daily routine and nightly meal and he hates to veer off it. Some of his quirks are so silly, but because he exhibits them all the time, it’s believable.
Raj can’t speak to women unless he has alcohol in his system.
Howard is a Jewish man who hasn’t forced his mother to cut the apron strings and he always wears a dickey under his shirt. So Eddie-like from Christmas Vacation. And you can always count on his comments to have more than one meaning. đ
And Leonard has more social skills than the others, but he’s not without issues–one being he’s lactose intolerant. You’ll never catch him eating/drinking dairy.
3. Romantic tension is the right amount.
Leonard is crazy about Penny and Penny ends up liking Leonard. They get together. They get broken up. They move on, but you know they still have it for each other. They didn’t get together too soon, but I’m not like, “Okay already, it’s time to get them back together.” Like Rick Castle and Kate Beckett. I’m so ready for them to get together! đ
I’ve learned a few things as a writer from watching Big Bang, but mostly it’s a hilarious show that makes me laugh. And I’m all about some ha-ha’s.
Readers: What TV show has you in stitches and why?
Writers: What TV show do you love that has helped you with some writing techniques?
This week has been busy and it’s flown by. Tonight my house will be packed with teenage girls, as my daughter is turning 13 tomorrow! Happy Birthday, Boo! My friend “Jane” will be sleeping over as well.
Quite sure we’ll get into some kind of ridiculous mischief. We always do. She had to go and get her teaching degree and then to top it off she had to go and get a job, so our weekly adventures have only been through texts, but we go for some rides with those. We’re roasting dogs/mellows and then anything goes I guess.
I’m not doing NaNoWriMo. I’m editing. Always editing, but hey at least I have something to edit, right? I’m cheering all you writers who are participating on! Woohoo!
I’ve added a few new shows to my line up. Grimm, Once Upon a Time, Prime Suspect and Unforgettable. None of them will probably go over because anytime I get into a good show, they dump it.
I’m having moments with Green Apple Tootsie roll pops. Only don’t eat one after you brush your teeth. Not tasty.
And I’m loving Spotify because I can star songs and make playlists. I write to music and sometimes one song just gives me what I need for a scene, so I’ll listen to it on repeat. Sometimes a few times, sometimes for a couple hours. Literally. Hours.
Right now. Here’s the song I’m editing/rewriting to.
My favorite line is: “You’re a beautiful woman and I’m just a man.” That moment in the song feels so intimate and vulnerable. Chill bumps break out on my skin. My heart races and my stomach plummets to the floor. And there’s something about a piano and violin making sweet music love that sends me right over the edge. Or maybe I was listening to it while eating the green apple Tootsie roll pop…you decide.
It’s pretty awesome, huh?
What’s going on in your neck of the woods? Are you hooked on any new shows, candy, or songs? Have a great weekend!
If you could mix cotton candy, an apple, and glitter together, you’d get Lacie Nezbeth! She’s sweet, sparkly, fun and good for you! I’m so excited to have her today.
Lacie Nezbeth is a stay-at-home mom with three young children. She spends her time running them all over town and loving it. Her love of books and history began when she read Little House on the Prairie as a young girl. Since then âthe good ole daysâ have fascinated her and made her writing genre an easy choice! She loves to live âin the momentâ with her family and enjoys traveling, shopping and baking decadent dessertsâŠwhich doesnât bode well for her shopping!
When did you get the writerâs bug? Has it always been something in you? Did you pen your first story with a jumbo crayon?
Nope. No jumbo crayon works of art for me. Although, I did write a short story in the 4th grade that I was pretty proud of. Got an A+ and everything but thatâs as far as writing went for me as a child.
I first got the writerâs bug when I was pregnant with my first child, back in 2004. I was stuck at home a lot due to the constant retching that plagued me daily for my first trimester. Reading was the only thing that kept me from cursing motherhood altogether. One particularly rough morning, after I finished reading an especially frustrating book, I said, âIâm gonna write my own book. One without all those stupid problems that keep the heroine and hero apart for so darn long.â That tells you how much I knew about what I was getting into. J But the idea stuck and Iâve enjoyed learning more and more about how great books come to be.
We do ache to have them together quickly don’t we? It’s fun keeping them apart as the writer, though! Yum! Speaking of yum, do you snack while writing? If so, what do you munch on?
No. Iâve found that when the words are ready in my head, trying to eat and type at the same time just slows me down. Apparently, Iâm not a very good multi-tasker. But when Iâm stuck somewhere in my story, bring on the food! Something sweet and chocolateyâŠif I can find it.
Bake one of those decadent desserts, then call me over! What do you love most about writing? What do you find most challenging?
My favorite thing about writing is getting lost in my stories. For me (since I write historicals) itâs fun to imagine what it must have been like to live without all the modern conveniences that we all love. Iâm constantly wondering if I would have survived. I like to think so.
Finding time to write or being consistent in my writing is the hardest thing for me. When I have 37 other things I know I need to do, I sometimes feel guilty taking the time for myself. And then there are those days when Iâve hit a road block in my story anyway, so those 37 other things can also look pretty good.
37 things? Really? That’s all? You need to be busier. đ How do you come up with story ideas?
This is one area where I donât struggle at all. Thankfully! A new idea will randomly sneak into my headâŠusually while Iâm driving or researching. I keep a running list of book/plot ideas on Evernote. Some really need to be fleshed out and others are ready to go. I just canât write fast enough.
I have tons of ideas while researching and driving too! We’re twins! If you could be one hero/heroine from a book who would you choose and why?
I would probably choose Anne Shirley from Anne of Green Gables. She is so spunky and fun and imaginative. And she never lets anything stand in the way of her goals. Plus, who doesnât want to use phrases like âkindred spiritsâ and âbosom buddiesâ without creeping people out? J
LOL! Yeah, bosom buddies is a tad frightening! If you could be one villain from a book who would you choose and why?
Iâm using âvillainâ loosely here because personally, I donât think she is one, but Scarlett OâHara from Gone With the Wind would be my choice. Man, that woman had some nerve and determination like Iâve never seen. Her methods were a bitâŠletâs sayâŠskewed. But her motivations of protecting her family and land were very noble.
She happens to be one of my favorite characters. I could go on and on, but “I’ll have to think about that another day.” (Hand over forehead as if I might pass out.) So, what are you currently working on? Tell us a little about it.
Prairie Breeze isa mail-order bride story gone terribly wrong. Victoria Sutton impulsively accepts an advertisement to marry Benjamin Black, who is headed west to Oregon Territory. Only Benjamin has no interest in marriage whatsoever and is clueless to the marital ad his well-meaning father placed in his name. When the two meet, naĂŻve to the othersâ identity, sparks fly. But not just the good kind.
Is there a question youâd like to ask everyone?
I love to shop! And Iâm always curious where other ladies buy their clothes. So, share with me. Are you a designer diva or do you hunt for the sales? Where do you go most often when shopping for your clothes? J
I, personally, love to thrift shop and I find all sorts of divalicious designs for penny prices! Well that’s my two cents…get it…two cents…;) I’ll stop now.
You can connect with Lacie on twitter, facebook and her blog! You can…and you really should!
Hey, everyone! It’s Friday! What a week! If you haven’t “liked” the new facebook devotional community, Living by Grace, scroll down in my side bar and join up! We have great discussions and we bond through faith. How cool is that? Also, if you haven’t “liked” my writer page, be a love and find me in the sidebar and Voila! I’m liked! đ (I had the wrong thing on there before, oy!)
Today, I’d like to welcome Staci Stallings to my blog. Say hey, everyone! Staci is the author of the book The Price of Silence.
Take it away, Staci, and thanks for blogging here today!
Forgiving is Hard
One of the most difficult things about being a mom is walking your children through lifeâs really tough lessons. You can be floating along just fine, never even seeing the storm clouds gathering, when suddenly youâre caught in a maelstrom.
Thatâs what happened the other day with my son. Now heâs eight and very soft-hearted. He makes it a point to be nice to everyone (other than, of course, his two sisters). He takes things in very deeply. No surface living for him!
Heâs also highly creative and he wants to be acknowledged for the good ideas he comes up with. Sometimes thatâs a challenge in second grade. Okay, it doesnât get any easier after second grade either, but weâll deal with that later.
So the other day he gets in the van after school. I asked how his day was, and he said, âBad.â Now he has âApril Fooledâ me numerous times coming back with ânot really it was great!â But not this time. No, this time, bad went from bad to really bad to absolutely horrible in a matter of a heartbeat.
âMom, Anna* stole my idea!â (*not her real name)
âWhat do you mean she stole your idea?â
âI had this idea to make a big card for one of the teachers from the whole class, and she stole my idea. She told the teacher about it, and the teacher was all happy and excited and saying what a good kid she was. It wasnât her idea! It was MINE!â
By now big crocodile tears were rolling down his little cheeks.
âWell, maybe she didnât mean to steal it. Maybe she just thought it was a good idea.â
âThen why didnât she say it was mine. She just let them think it was hers.â He folded his arms. âIâm not going to sign that big card. Itâs not fair! Iâm going to just make my own and see how they like that.â
âNow, sweetheart, I realize youâre upsetâŠâ
âAnd next time Iâm going to steal one of her ideas and not tell anybody it was hers. Then she can see how this feels. I bet she wonât like it very much.â
You really canât make this stuff up, you know?
âListen, I donât know why she did it, but think about it this way, the teacher really liked your idea even if she was the one that said it.â
âYeah, but they think it was hers, and theyâre all, âOh, thatâs such a great idea. Youâre so smart.â I bet sheâd be mad too if I took her idea like that and didnât tell anybody. Iâm going to do that to her and see how she likes it.â
Thatâs when I realized he was really going to need some help getting through this. It wasnât just a thing he was going to get through. He wouldnât forget it in five minutes. This was real to him. He was angry and hurt, and carrying that around wasnât going to do anyone any good.
So, I said, âI think youâre going to have to try to forgive her.â
âForgive her? Mom! She doesnât deserve to be forgiven! Besides I want to get even with her. I want her to feel like I do right now.â
âI know, but thatâs not good for you. That is just going to make you mad and miserable. Itâs not going to change what happened at school.â
âBut itâs not fair, Mom. That was my idea and no one even knows that!â
âI know, and I donât know why she took your idea without telling anyone. Maybe she just thought it was a good idea and mentioned it. Maybe she didnât mean to steal it, it just happened.â
âWell, Iâm still mad at her.â
âI know. But I think maybe you should think about trying to forgive herâeven if she doesnât deserve it. You know, weâve talked about forgiveness at home. When you say youâre sorry or they say theyâre sorry.â
âBut she didnât even say she was sorry. I donât even think she is.â
âYouâre probably right, maybe she isnât even sorry, but that doesnât mean you can stay mad. Itâs still important to forgive her⊠for you.â
âBut, Mom. Forgiving is hard! I donât want to forgive her. I want to be mad at her.â
âI know. Forgiving is hard. Thatâs why a lot of the time we have to ask God to help us to forgive because if it was up to us, weâd just stay mad all the time. But that doesnât fix anything. It just makes us sad and mad and hurt. Thatâs no fun. But God will help you to forgive her even though itâs hard.â
About this time the tears stopped, and I could see peace come over him.
âJust think about it,â I said.
You know, forgiving is hard. And the worse whatever the other person did, the harder it is to forgive. But when itâs right and you know itâs right but itâs hard, thatâs when you know you need God. God is there to help you and guide you through those rough patches when you really donât want to do the right thing, when doing the wrong thing sure sounds easier and more logical.
But Godâs logical will help you find real peace. The other is just a long road of misery.
By the time we got home that night, my son was in much better spirits and the next day he not only signed the big card, he included his little card with it. So maybe he learned a good lesson. I know I did.
Thanks, Staci! I’ve learned many lessons from my kids. I’m thankful He’s there to guide me through things I don’t really want to do. When I obey, the peace truly is sweet!
Although Staci lives in Amarillo, Texas and her main career right now is her family, she touches the lives of people across the globe every week with her various Internet endeavors including:
Hello, everyone! So glad you’re here! Let’s jump in and I hope and pray you’ll be encouraged today! And don’t forget we’re talking about endless possiblities over at Living by Grace, on facebook! You can be a part by clicking the Living by Grace “like” button on the sidebar!
I’m still studying Joshua. A fascinating book, really. Like all the books of the Bible. Full of treasure. Everything that makes a wonderful book–only all true! Today’s text is found in Joshua 22:5. “…hold fast to Him…” This small phrase is going to lead us somewhere else!
What does it mean to “hold fast,” and how do you do it?
In the KJV, instead of the words âhold fast,â it uses the word âcleave.â âCleaveâ in Hebrew is “dabaq” and it means, âto cling, to join, stay close to, to stick with.â
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In Genesis 2:23-25, God joins Adam and Eve. âto be joined to his wifeâ is the same word used here in Joshua. Marriage is a union of two people– making a covenant to join together, to stick closely, cling to each otherâfor better or worse, in good times and bad, in sickness and health, richer or poorer. No matter what.
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This is how God feels about us. When we accept Jesus as our Savior we enter into a covenant with Him. We join ourselves. We hold fastâcleaveâstay close. Hosea 2:16 is an example of God seeing us as His bride. An unfaithful bride that has ran after other lovers. Anything or anyone you put before God is another lover. Because youâre joined to God. But Heâs a loving husband. Always wooing us back to Him.
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In Matthew 9:15, Jesus refers to Himself as the Bridegroom. His love for usâŠsacrificial.
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Song of Solomon 8:5 says, âWho is this coming up from the wilderness, leaning upon her beloved?…”
Song of Solomon is a beautiful picture of how the Lord loves us. The imagery is captivating, the story breathless from beginning to end. Itâs my favorite book. A book that tells of a bride who must learn complete surrender to her lover husband. A husband who desires a bride who will go with him wherever he asks her to go, even if sheâs frightened or insecure. To him, sheâs the most beautiful thing heâs ever laid eyes on. He wants to show her a whole new world. It just so happens to take place in a wilderness.
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Imagine a wilderness. A wild, uninhabited, and uncultivated land.
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I see it as dry; every breath zaps the moisture from your tongue and the grit from the sand scratches at your throat. Parched. Barren of anything lush or green. The heat leaves your clothing clinging to you until the sun scorches even the moisture of sweat away, and then itâs just a stiff feeling, like hanging clothes out and not using any fabric softeners.
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There are no sheltering trees for shade, no fruit trees to quench thirst or hunger. Scorpions, lizards, and snakes slither and prowl around. Hungry coyotes watch from the rocky mountainsâŠwaiting⊠Vultures swarm overhead
Will you go with Him? Will you step out of your comfort zone and let Him show you things you cannot even imagine? Glorious things. A diamond sky. Donât you dare close your eyes!
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You can trust Him.
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Surrender. You can say yes. You can go deeper.
Not only does she come out of the wilderness, but she comes out safelyâcloser to her Beloved than ever before. Leaning on Him for strength. Heâs protected her from the elements, the dangers, and from her own doubt.
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Love is stronger than it ever was before she went into the wilderness. After the time there, she says in verses 6-7, âSet me as a seal upon your heart, upon your armâŠfor love is as strong as death…â
His love is stronger than deathâŠstronger than hellâŠstronger than the grave. He hurdled mountains and skipped hills for you–the huge problems and yes, even the small things because He cares about them all. He wants to show you intimacy like youâve never experienced before. A whole new world.
 Now watch the video, but this timeâŠput yourself in Jasmineâs place and see Aladdin as Jesus. Stretch your imagination and see what God shows you!
Also take note of what he sings to her and what she sings back. And an interesting part, notice where she is when she says, “I can’t go back to where I used to be.” (She’s in Egypt–which symbolizes bondage!)
In 2004, I wrote my first novel. I wrote it under a pen name and I didn’t write it for the glory of God.
Everybody falls sometimes, Gotta find the strength to rise, out of the ashes and make a new beginning.
In August of 2008, I had a conversation with God and I started writing again. I finished my first novel, under my name, for the glory of God, in December 2008. I wasn’t sure what to do with it. I had never read a blog or a craft book. I read it for typos, but that’s about all.
So, I decided to put it on Christian Manuscript submissions. While it sat there, I wrote another novel, and another and then I put a new one on the same site. During that six months, I wrote a few more.
In March of 2010, I wrote a new novel and submitted it in the Operation First Novel contest. I didn’t semi-final.
I made a decision to fly to Denver for the Writing for the Soul conference anyway. My husband is my rock. (Yeah, Jesus is, but you know what I mean) We were going to go together. I’m terrified of new places and going into unfamiliar territory alone. Not just apprehensive, terrified–but hubby was going.
Until he wasn’t. “Jess, I can’t go. I’m swamped at work (not just busy but lots of stuff).” His face expressed concern. He knows I depend on him to get me places.
Anyone can feel the ache, You think it’s more than you can take. But you’re stronger, stronger than you know.
“Okay, I can do this.”
He smiled and put his hand on my knee. “I’ll take care of it.”
A few days later, he booked a direct flight so I wouldn’t have to worry about layovers and he made sure I knew about the shuttle counter and how to get a ticket.
In February 2011, I got on a plane in Memphis, alone. Except, I wasn’t.
“You’re crossing your Jordan, Jess. Just you and Me,” God whispered.
I cried on the plane. I was flying towards my promise. I had taken the step of faith. I looked out the windows. I was doing this. Me! Little ole’ me. And Big Ole’ God.
Don’t you give up now, the sun will soon be shining, You gotta face the clouds, to find the silver lining.
I landed in Denver airport and met up with one of my Critique partners I’d made online during the few months before the contest. Where was she before I entered?
I had spent a lot of time in prayer. I read the blogs and articles about how hard it was to break out into the publishing world. But I had a God-given dream. I had to decide to persevere, when my heart failed, when my mind said NO WAY, when I thought about who I was–a nobody from a small town, when I cried alone at the thought of pitching to an agent or editor, when I needed the money to get to the conference. When I looked at all the reasons why this was ridiculous.
I kept writing. I kept believing. I had to.
It doesn’t matter what you’ve heard, impossible is not a word. It’s just a reason, for someone not to try. Everybody’s scared to death, when they decide to take that step…out on the water, it’ll be alright.
I didn’t know what to expect. But I’d prayed and believed as I searched the available agents and editors attending the conference that God would guide me to the right ones. Maybe nothing would happen at that moment, but for the future. “God, who is right for me? I don’t want to pitch to everyone. I don’t want to scramble and rush. I want the right ones. For me. That’s my prayer. Have Your way.” TIP: Be prayerful about pitching and querying.
That night we had the chance to sign up for 3 appointments, a mentor appt, and a coaching appt. “Lord, I believe you’ve led me to these 3 people. I’m praying I get a slot.”
I signed up for mentoring, then I signed up for the coaching and then I got all 3 of my prayerful picks. One publisher, one editor, one agent.
My mentoring came first. Praise God! She smiled, took my writing, asked me to give my pitch, then looked at what I wrote. “This is good writing. I think your story starts in Chapter 2.”
“Should I not pitch?”
“No! Pitch it. It’s good. Let an editor decide that. You’re going to be great. Your pitch is perfect. Can I pray with you?”
Later that day, I sat in on a 15 minute coaching session. I slouch. I know. It was a great coaching session. Talk slower, relax. You’ll be fine. Sounds like a neat story.
I pitched to the publisher first. She asked me what my story was about and had I written any other ones. I told her. “I like the story, but we do more missional novels. I’m interested in what others say, if you get a chance tonight, come find me and let me know how it went. Can I pray for you?” Tip: Editors, Publishers, and Agents are people. Relax. Easier said than done, I know. But they really do want the best for you!
Life is so much more, than what your eyes are seeing, you will find your way, if you keep believing.
I pitched to an editor next. I was intimidated, but she smiled and asked me some questions. Hard ones. She asked me, (TIP:) “Why did you write the book?” “Why do you think this book should be published?” I had answers. My first funny one was, “I’m pitching this one because it isn’t my first book.” We laughed. Then I told her the real reason why. She asked for a partial.
And then, it was time to pitch to THE AGENT. The ONE. I walked in and shook her hand and introduced myself. “I know your name. Do you follow our blog?” TIP: Comment on agent blogs and be sincere.
“Yes, I do.” And then my nerves got me, but I gave her my elevator pitch.
“You know I’m going to need more than that now.” She grinned. TIP: Be able to explain your book further than one hook-pitch clearly and quickly.
She asked me a few questions, her eyebrows raised. I totally thought I was tanking it. I could answer her questions at least. She nodded. “It sounds like something I’d be interested in, but I won’t know unless I read it. Send me a full.”
WHAT?
I left, went straight to my hotel room, crumpled into a heap and bawled. A partial and a full. It was hope. It wasn’t a contract, but it was hope. Slim. But hope.
I’ve seen dreams that moves the mountains, hope that doesn’t ever end even when the sky is falling. I’ve seen miracles just happen, silent prayers get answered, broken hearts become brand new…
that’s what faith can do…overcome the odds, when you don’t have a chance, when the world says you can’t
It’ll tell you that you can!
I sent the requested material March of 2011. The second week of June I received an email from the agent. She enjoyed the story and felt it was almost ready for representation. She made a list of a few areas that needed revised.
1. Too many POVs, I cut out 3 because she was right, they were there for convenience.
2. Too many switches in POVs per scene. “Could you keep it 2 POVs per chapter?”
3. Typos. “Could you polish it up a bit?”
YES! I’ll do all of it. I printed out the ms and prayed. Please help me to do this, Lord. After I tackled the big issues, I went through and polished it. Then I sent it to my critique partners. They all caught something! They were life lines. TIP: Get critique partners you trust and polish your ms before sending.
On June 8th, 2011, I sent my revisions. August came and I read a blog by another agent saying after a couple months it’s ok to send a nudge and see if the agent has received the material. So I did. I sent an email asking if she had received what I sent.
I got a reply. Yes, she had and she was half-way through it, with an apology for taking so long. How sweet was she? Okay, that’s better than I’m half-way through and not reading any more. I can wait. I can do this.
On September 9th, I received an email with a date to discuss representation! That call came this past Wednesday. I had a great conversation, we’re on the same page, and we’re excited about what’s to come!
I hope everyone had a great holiday! Cookouts, staying in jammies longer, poolside. Fall is on the way. No more white shoes or pants. Black’s more slimming anyway.
So let me ask you a question.
What does living by grace mean to you?
For me, it means walking each day knowing I am weak, but He is strong. I get tired, He never does. I stumble, He holds me up. I make mistakes, Heâs perfect.
So many things pour into me every day. Responsibilities of being a wife, mother, employee, a writer, a woman (if youâre a woman you know what Iâm saying). I wear many hats. I love each one. I love each responsibility, but they can all wear me out.
I need my thirsty soul, quenched. I need saturated with His love, with the washing of the water of His Word. I canât be good at any of the things above, if I donât first fill myself up with Him.
Can anyone relate?
And because Iâm a woman, I like to share. Women love to share, donât they? My husband is amazed at some of the things Iâm willing to divulge to my girlfriends. I love it when a bunch of us get together and talk about life and most importantly the foundation of life. Jesus Christ.
It renews me, encourages me, revs me up, and gives me hope. We bond through friendship and faith. We care for each other, pray for each other, laugh together. Itâs a wonderful experience, especially when coffee and chocolate are involved!
ââŠA cord of three strands is not quickly broken.â Ecclesiastes 4:12
Doesnât this sense of belonging, renewal, and friendship sound wonderful? Wish you could have it on a daily basis?
You can.
Iâm honored to be partnering with some incredible women of faith who want to live by grace, together. We want a sense of community and camaraderie with other women. On September 12th, weâll be launching a devotional facebook community. Living By Grace. We want to invite you to come by and let your souls be quenched, your minds and hearts challenged. Each day an amazing woman will bring the word through a devotional and feel free to mingle, chat, ask questions, and just have a good time.
Weâre building bonds of sisterhood through faith and facebook! Come and join us.
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I’m honored to be working with such talented writers. They all have wonderful personal blogs. You can find them by clicking on their names below.
First, let me start off with, as I googled “home” and hit images, it quickly dawned on me that I’d typed in “hoe.” After flushing my eyes for several minutes, drinking half the bottle of antacid for a nauseated stomach, and learning how to breathe again, I entered the word “home” correctly and…found nothing I wanted to use. That was for free. đ
Next, I’m honored to have won the Liebster Award, twice! Thanks Loree and Sheri!
Now on with the show, this is it!
Two Saturdays ago, I had the privilege of going to writer’s group. Yep, I call it a privilege. I get to sit around a few tables of talented men and women, who love God and the pen and paper (ok, keyboard but whatever, it sounded prettier).
From the first moment I stepped inside Byhalia Christian Writers group, I felt… at home. I was welcomed and ushered in as if I’d always been there.
We chat, talk, sometimes eat…we write. And we share a devotion together. Saturday’s devotion was given by William Hill, a really neat guy with a gift for poetry (just one of his many, I’m sure). I stink at poetry.
He talked about an award he won and how one of the best employees there, congratulated him. He said, “He gave me permission to be great.” I loved that. He went on to talk about sharpening each other. “As iron sharpens iron so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.” Proverbs 27:17
“I need to know when my blade is dull, but I also want to know when I’ve made a good cut.”
How incredible is that? I wrote it down. Words of wisdom from a writer, who loves the Lord. What he said, struck me. Do I want to know when I’m dull or do I just want a pat on the back for clean, seamless cuts?
I drove home thinking that day, like all days I visit writer’s group. I never leave wondering why I attend. I learn something new. I feel like I’ve invested my time wisely.
Marylane Koch, our fearless leader, a great encourager, and all around beautiful woman, inside and out, never fails to amaze me and make me feel special. And she does it for everyone. It reminds me of Jesus. When I’m worshipping in the congregation, and He speaks so intimately to me, I think I’m the only one in the room of hundreds. After church, my bff will share how God touched her deeply and I think. How? He was touching me.
That’s Marylane. Making everyone feel like they’re the only one. They matter. They have something to say. And they can make a difference, honoring God.
If you’re a writer, I hope you’re in a group as fabulous as ours. If you’re not in a group, I encourage you to get in a group.
If you’re a reader, pray for us writers. We do it for you. We need the prayers and guidance to make every page something you’ll not only love, but something that will strike a chord deep inside you, something that will make your heart sing, draw you closer to God, and leave you with a glorious melody to be shared with others.
Our 5 minute writing prompt for the day was: This is one thing I cannot throw away.
What is one thing you cannot throw away? Have a great weekend!
My plan, went downhill after that. She was talking about this brain test she took. No harm or poking involved.
Naturally, as I read, my interest was piqued. And then she did the unthinkable…
She posted the link to the test and gave me permission to take it.
There went laundry, revising, working on a crit for a friend, researching books for the bookclub, and the treadmill. Because after I took the test, I had to blog about it. Like Lynda did. Go check hers out. It was fun and entertaining.
Here are my results. I was shocked at how accurate the answers were.
“Jessica, you show a slight right-hemisphere dominance with a moderate preference for auditory processing, an unusual and somewhat paradoxical combination of characteristics.”
What a way to start off. I’m not only unusual, well duh, I’m a paradox of sorts. Nice.
Oh yeah, a reasonable degree of success. That’s…comforting. “Don’t you want to be successful?” Sure, I mean to a reasonable degree. Oy!
“You are drawn to a random and sometimes nonchalant synthesis of material. You learn as it seems important to a specific situation, and might even develop a resentment of others who attempt to direct your learning down a specific channel.”
Seriously! I just got out of my mouth a couple days ago. “Ugh, I wouldn’t want to go back to school to save my life. I love studying, but I don’t want anyone telling me what I have to study. I study what I want.” And, I am drawn to random and nonchalant material. I’m often told, “How do you know that?” “You have more useless knowledge than anyone I know.” Yeah, I’m proud of that! I studied for that!
“Your right-hemispheric dominance provides a structure that is only loosely organized and one which processes entire swatches of reality, overlooking details. You are emotional in your reactions and perceptual more than logical in your approach, although you can impose structure and a language base when necessary.” *I did not highlight this for any specific reason, but I couldn’t get blogger to make it white! What’s up with that?
That’s pretty much true. Probably why I’m more of a pantser than a plotter, although I do plot when necessary. See!
“Your tendency to be creative and free-flowing is accompanied by sufficient ability to organize and be logical, allowing you a reasonable degree of success in a number of different endeavors. You take in information methodically and systematically which can then be synthesized rapidly. In this manner, you manage to function consistently well, although certainly less efficiently than you desire.”
“You prefer the abstract and are a theoretician at heart while retaining the ability to be practical. You find the symbolism in a great deal of what you encounter and are something of a “mystic.””
Nailed it! I do find symbolism in everything, because everything is a physical picture of something spiritual! Mystic, L.O.L. But spiritual, definitely.
Okay, now I give you permission to take the test and come back with your answers! After you take the test and it gives you the %’s, click on view summary to get the detailed rundown!
Each Monday I post a book review, or I invite a guest to stop by for you to meet.
Today, I want to know what you like to read.
Right now, I’m reading Judge & Jury by James Patterson. Yes, I read ABA fiction, also called “secular” fiction by some Christians. I read anything, really. There’s differing opinions on this subject.
Some people would say there’s so much great inspirational fiction, why would you want to read anything out of the CBA market? We need to support Christian writers. I agree with this. We do need to support Christian writers and there is ton of great inspirational fiction.
But, there are Christians who do not write for the CBA market. So are we supporting CBA or Christian writers? I think we can do both!
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I don’t know what James Patterson’s religious beliefs are, but his books do have some foul language and occasionally, depending on what book it is, he drops the “f” bomb. I completely understand why some Christians would not want to read his stuff. You have to go with what your convictions are. Maybe I’m just a rotten Christian with no convictions.
Although, there are some inspirational novels that do occasionally use some four-letter words. I personally have never read any that drop the “f” bomb. Maybe you have.
 How do you feel about that?
I think as a writer I can learn as much from Patterson or Kellerman (Faye and Jonathan) as I can Steven James, whose books cross both markets, (I read this somewhere so if it’s not accurate, please don’t yell at me) and he happens to be one of my favorite authors. Man, he’s good!
Now, I don’t read Erotica, fyi, I do have my limits. So maybe I’m not a rotten Christian after all and have some convictions. đ My point is, I’m reading Patterson right now. My next book will be a Lynette Eason novel (inspirational). I’ve never read her before, and I look forward to jumping into one of her stories on my kindle.
I did a review on Sally John’s novel, Desert gift a couple weeks ago. It comes out in June. You can read the review HERE. I’m also giving a copy of this book away today! If you would like to enter for the chance to win, please make a note of that in the comments section. If you don’t say you want to win it, you won’t be entered into the drawring. (I spelled that like I wanted to!)
Question: Do you read inspirational fiction only or do you cross over and read books in other markets? Why or why not? I’d love to hear your input! Also, how do you feel about swear words in inspirational fiction?
